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How to Pray
At Spiritual Life Church, we believe that
anyone can have a personal relationship with God and with Jesus Christ,
His Son.
Many of us are raised in the tradition of
praying only at certain times, in certain places. We pray in church, at
funerals, over meals, at bedtime. But when you have a personal
relationship with God, you can pray all day, every day. At first, it may
seem like a burden, one more thing to do, about as exciting as exercise,
or mowing the lawn, or doing the dishes. But I think you’ll find that
prayer will quickly become as natural as breathing, and a tremendous
comfort.
"Be joyful always, pray at all times, be
thankful in all circumstances. This is what God wants from you in your
life in union with Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Many people hesitate to offer their prayers to
God because they think they don’t know the "right" words.
God isn’t impressed by big words and flowery language. He just wants
to hear from you, His child. Pray in your own words. God knows what’s
in your heart. Talk to Him. Praise Him. Give thanks for a safe trip.
Pray for a friend in chemotherapy. Ask forgiveness for those hurtful
words. Praise God for that beautiful sunset. Ask for His guidance as you
take on a new project. You don’t have to wait for a special time and
place. Say your prayer right then. God hears you.
Many of us are so caught up in our busy lives,
we get in the habit of thinking only about ourselves. Remember others,
family, friends and strangers, when you pray. Remember, too, that a
prayer is not a "wish list". God doesn’t grant us everything
we ask for, when we ask for it.
We may think we know what we need and want, but
only God knows for sure. Only God knows when the time is right, or if we’re
ready to receive what we ask for.
Jesus tells us, "When you pray, do not use
a lot of meaningless words, as the pagans do, who think that God will
hear them because they’re prayers are long. Do not be like them. Your
Father already knows what you need before you ask Him." Matthew
6:7-8
The second part of prayer is listening.
Sometimes we’re so busy talking, we forget that God may have something
to tell us. Set aside a few minutes of quiet time each day just to be
with Him.
You’ll be amazed what a difference it makes
in your life. How calm you’ll begin to feel, how small the problems of
every day life begin to seem.
Be an example to your children. Don’t tell
them to pray, but pray with them. A member of our congregation tells me
that one of the fondest memories she has of her childhood is kneeling
beside her bed with her father as they recited the classic child’s
bedtime prayer together: "Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the
Lord my soul to keep. If I should die before I wake, I pray the Lord my
soul to take."
Most important of all, remember to thank God,
and give Him Praise, even in bad times. What
a comfort, to know that you’re never alone. God and His Son, Jesus
Christ, are always with you. |